The Sibling Peace Plan™: End Fighting, Rivalry & Tattling
A Taiyib Method™ framework for helping parents reduce sibling fighting, rivalry, and tattling by teaching children emotional regulation, repair, and conflict-resolution skills — so peace becomes the rhythm of the home.
What you'll learn
What you'll be able to do
- Identify the specific type of sibling dynamic (rivalry, jealousy, dominance, boredom conflict) driving YOUR children's fights so you can intervene with precision, not guesswork
- Stop reflexively playing referee and replace it with a proven 3-step response that teaches kids to resolve disputes independently
- Implement the Peace Plan conflict-resolution script — a simple, repeatable process your children can run on their own by week 3
- Eliminate 80%+ of tattling by addressing the underlying need behind it rather than the behavior itself
- Restructure family routines and sibling interactions using the five 'Cooperation Triggers' that make getting along the path of least resistance
- Defuse hot-moment meltdowns in under 90 seconds using the STOP-SHIFT-SOLVE technique without yelling, bribing, or taking sides
- Build lasting sibling identity and loyalty using bonding rituals that take less than 10 minutes a day
- Confidently handle regressions and hard seasons (new baby, divorce, school transitions) without losing the progress you've made
How it works
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The curriculum
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5 modules · 16 lessons
Diagnose the Real Problem — Why Your Kids Actually Fight
Before you can fix it, you have to understand it. This module dismantles the most common myths about sibling conflict and gives you a precise diagnostic lens to identify exactly which dynamic is driving YOUR children's specific pattern of fighting — because the solution depends entirely on the cause.
- 1.1The 4 Conflict Archetypes: Which One Is Your Family?Included
- 1.2Why 'Be Fair' Backfires: The Equality TrapIncluded
- 1.3The Hidden Audience Problem: How YOUR Reactions Fuel the FightIncluded
The STOP-SHIFT-SOLVE Framework — Your New In-the-Moment Playbook
This is the operational core of the course. You'll learn the three-phase in-the-moment response system that replaces yelling, taking sides, and endless negotiating — a repeatable process you can execute in under 90 seconds, even when you're already frustrated.
- 2.1STOP: Interrupting the Escalation Cycle Without Taking OverIncluded
- 2.2SHIFT: Regulating the Room Before Resolving the ProblemIncluded
- 2.3SOLVE: The 5-Step Resolution Sequence Kids Can Run ThemselvesIncluded
- 2.4Adapting STOP-SHIFT-SOLVE for Different Ages and TemperamentsIncluded
Cracking the Tattling Code
Tattling is one of the most exhausting and misunderstood sibling behaviors. This module explains why children tattle (it's never really about the incident), gives you a word-for-word response system that stops rewarding it, and addresses the legitimate safety-reporting that you absolutely do want to encourage.
- 3.1Why Kids Tattle: The Three Drives Behind the BehaviorIncluded
- 3.2The Tattle Response System: What to Say (and Not Say) Every TimeIncluded
- 3.3Teaching the Difference Between Tattling and TellingIncluded
Redesigning Your Home for Peace — The Five Cooperation Triggers
Most sibling conflict is structural, not personal. This module shows you how to redesign the daily routines, physical environment, and family culture that are currently generating friction — so cooperation becomes the path of least resistance without anyone having to try harder.
- 4.1Trigger 1 & 2: Space and Scarcity — Removing the Structural Causes of 60% of FightsIncluded
- 4.2Trigger 3 & 4: Transitions and Hunger — The Biological Timebombs in Your ScheduleIncluded
- 4.3Trigger 5: Sibling Identity — Building the 'We' That Makes Fighting Feel WrongIncluded
Staying the Course — Progress, Regressions & the Long Game
Change is rarely linear. This final module prepares you for the inevitable regression, gives you tools to troubleshoot specific stuck points, and builds the long-term maintenance habits that keep the Peace Plan working as your children grow and your family changes.
- 5.1Reading the Progress Curve: What's Normal, What's a Warning SignIncluded
- 5.2Troubleshooting the Top 7 Sticking PointsIncluded
- 5.3The Peace Plan Through Life Transitions: New Babies, Divorce, Moving & MoreIncluded
Questions
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Your teacher
A note from your teacher
Inas Shabazz
Hi, I’m Inas Shabazz, creator of The Taiyib Method™.
I am a Child Development Architect, Career ROTA Nanny, and childcare educator with 25 years of hands-on experience working directly with children in homes, classrooms, and ultra-high-net-worth private households.
I have supported children through meltdowns, bedtime battles, sibling conflict, screen-time struggles, morning chaos, travel transitions, divorce, blended family dynamics, neurodiversity, anxiety, big emotions, and the everyday moments that can either strengthen a family or wear everybody down.
What I have learned is this:
Children are not born bad.
Most of the time, behavior is communication. A child may be overwhelmed, disconnected, tired, overstimulated, anxious, seeking control, or simply missing the rhythm and support they need to do better.
The Taiyib Method™ was created to help parents, guardians, nannies, educators, and caregivers understand the child beneath the behavior — and respond with calm, connection, structure, and clear boundaries.
This work is personal to me. Taiyib means pure, good, wholesome, and of excellent character. It is also rooted in the legacy of my mother, Taiyibah Shabazz. Her love, wisdom, and care live inside this method.
I created these courses because every family deserves access to the kind of intentional child development support that is often only available to families with private staff, specialized educators, or high-level caregiving teams.
You do not have to be perfect.
You do not have to have all the answers.
You just need a framework that helps you understand what is happening, know what to do next, and lead the children in your care with more peace, confidence, and love.
— Inas Shabazz
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