The Sibling Peace Plan™: End Fighting, Rivalry & Tattling
A Taiyib Method™ framework for helping parents reduce sibling fighting, rivalry, and tattling by teaching children emotional regulation, repair, and conflict-resolution skills — so peace becomes the rhythm of the home.
Perfect for: Parents and caregivers of 2+ children aged 3–14 who are exhausted by daily sibling conflict, constant tattling, and ongoing rivalry — and want a proven system, not just temporary fixes.
If you've broken up the same argument three times before 9 a.m., you already know: telling kids to "just get along" doesn't work. The constant bickering, tattling, and one-upmanship isn't a character flaw in your children — it's a skills gap. And skills can be taught.
The Sibling Peace Plan™ is a structured, research-backed program built by a licensed child development specialist with over a decade of experience helping real families go from daily chaos to genuine cooperation. This isn't a collection of tips. It's a complete framework — covering the hidden dynamics that fuel rivalry, the specific words and rituals that rewire how siblings interact, and a concrete conflict-resolution system your kids will actually use, even when you're not in the room.
You'll learn how to stop playing referee, why common "fair" parenting tactics often make rivalry worse, and how to build the kind of sibling bond that lasts a lifetime. Every lesson is grounded in developmental science and designed for busy parents who need real change, not more theory.
By the time you finish this course, your house won't just be quieter — your children will have a set of relationship skills that will serve them for the rest of their lives. That's the real gift of the Sibling Peace Plan™.
What you'll be able to do
- Identify the specific type of sibling dynamic (rivalry, jealousy, dominance, boredom conflict) driving YOUR children's fights so you can intervene with precision, not guesswork
- Stop reflexively playing referee and replace it with a proven 3-step response that teaches kids to resolve disputes independently
- Implement the Peace Plan conflict-resolution script — a simple, repeatable process your children can run on their own by week 3
- Eliminate 80%+ of tattling by addressing the underlying need behind it rather than the behavior itself
- Restructure family routines and sibling interactions using the five 'Cooperation Triggers' that make getting along the path of least resistance
- Defuse hot-moment meltdowns in under 90 seconds using the STOP-SHIFT-SOLVE technique without yelling, bribing, or taking sides
- Build lasting sibling identity and loyalty using bonding rituals that take less than 10 minutes a day
- Confidently handle regressions and hard seasons (new baby, divorce, school transitions) without losing the progress you've made
Curriculum
5 modules · 16 lessons
Your teacher
Inas Shabazz
Hi, I’m Inas Shabazz, creator of The Taiyib Method™. I am a Child Development Architect, Career ROTA Nanny, and childcare educator with 25 years of hands-on experience working directly with children in homes, classrooms, and ultra-high-net-worth private households. I have supported children through meltdowns, bedtime battles, sibling conflict, screen-time struggles, morning chaos, travel transitions, divorce, blended family dynamics, neurodiversity, anxiety, big emotions, and the everyday moments that can either strengthen a family or wear everybody down. What I have learned is this: Children are not born bad. Most of the time, behavior is communication. A child may be overwhelmed, disconnected, tired, overstimulated, anxious, seeking control, or simply missing the rhythm and support they need to do better. The Taiyib Method™ was created to help parents, guardians, nannies, educators, and caregivers understand the child beneath the behavior — and respond with calm, connection, structure, and clear boundaries. This work is personal to me. Taiyib means pure, good, wholesome, and of excellent character. It is also rooted in the legacy of my mother, Taiyibah Shabazz. Her love, wisdom, and care live inside this method. I created these courses because every family deserves access to the kind of intentional child development support that is often only available to families with private staff, specialized educators, or high-level caregiving teams. You do not have to be perfect. You do not have to have all the answers. You just need a framework that helps you understand what is happening, know what to do next, and lead the children in your care with more peace, confidence, and love.
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